On behalf of Project Gender and Ngāti Kahungunu, we are thrilled to present the final report for Mako Mama - Mangopare, the Single Parents Project. This work has been commissioned and funded by the Peter McKenzie Project: we tautoko their dedication and determination to achieve meaningful systemic change and we thank them for their faith in our mahi. Your support has enabled us to amplify the voices of single parents across Aotearoa and we thank you for this. 

Mā whero, mā pango ka oti ai te mahi. 

(With red and black the work will be complete).

Nau mai, Haere mai - welcome.

Mako Mama - Mangopare in the media: 2nd May 2023

Single parent whānau have told us what they need. 

Stakeholders, the sector, government and others agree.

We have identified opportunities to collaborate for change.

1. Promoting positive narratives of single parent families within the media and community.

Why:  A primary prevention and social change approach is needed to address high rates of stigmatisation of single parents in New Zealand and create safer and more inclusive communities and families.  

What: A nationwide media, marketing and communications campaign. The campaign would aim to change behaviours; mobilise communities; and address social attitudes that stigmatise single parents.  

2. Creation of a ‘Navigators’ portal

Why:  An online portal is needed to enable Single Parents to access all of the support available to them, provide interagency coordination, collaboration and communication; and establish and/or promote protocols, guidelines and systems between relevant agencies and service providers nationally, regionally and locally for information sharing and coordination of services. 

The Kaupapa of the project to develop a ‘Navigators ‘portal is anchored in the knowledge that single parents are the experts of their own lives with a framework for single parents to create solutions for single parent families.  

3. Protection, not investigation

Why: The single most impactful action to achieve this is to reframe our state responsibility for single parents towards protection and away from investigation.

What: Reframing state responsibilities for single parents towards protection not investigation and ensuring an intersectional lens is applied across all agencies. 

How:  The recommendations outlined in Mako Mama - Mangopare all support the shift towards integrating this approach within government, business and communities.  We have divided them into three categories; systemic, policy and areas for immediate action.

Throughout the Mako Mama - Mangopare report we highlight the ways in which single parenthood is often stigmatised. In order for the 64,000+ Single Parent whānau in Aotearoa to thrive, a fundament shift is required in how government, businesses, and society think about, and engage with, single parents.   

The single most impactful action to achieve this  is to reframe our state responsibility for single parents towards protection and away from investigation. 

We have identifed three top priority change areas:

Celebrate Us

Support Us

Respect Our Mana

Project Gender and Ngāti Kahungunu have worked in partnership on this project.

Our objectives were to ensure the experiences and voices of Maori whānau were iwi-led and followed the principles of Te Tiriti o Waitangi.

The journey we have been on with Mako Mama - Mangopare has centred our whānau voice in a way that is empowering and strengths based. We have connected with different rōpū and heard from them what they need to thrive.
— Mel Humpries, Te Kura Programme Lead

Chrissie Hape, CE of Ngāti Kahungunu, speaking at the Mako Mama - Mangopare Stakeholder Hui in September 2022.

Key Themes that emerged from Ngāti Kahungunu:

  • Māmā under 20  -  We don’t have a voice we feel discriminated against because we are young we are Maori we are single mothers.

  • Māmā over 20 - We don’t just want to job, we want a career and opportunities to study/work that fit our lives as sole carers for our tamariki

  • Whero whānau māmā – Resoundingly want Protection not Investigation.

  • Tāne Māori -  Knowledge is power – give us the whole picture not just pieces of the puzzle

  • Mana wāhine - Decolonisation not colonisation.

Engaging across Aotearoa

Mako Mama - Mangopare has been informed by:

  • 3,545 survey respondents

  • Over 50+ stakeholders engaged in hui, including Members of Parliament, policy-makers, advisors, those from the private sector, community advocates and more. Many also have lived experience of single parenting.

  • 7 focus groups conducted by Project Gender, with 43 participants

  • 5 focus groups conducted by Ngāti Kahungunu

  • 6 Project Advisory Group Members

  • The Environmental Scan conducted as the first stage of this mahi

A text received from a single parent when we appeared on Breakfast TV

Our Set of Recommendations

Pulling together: 

  1. The insights from previous research and advocacy 

  2. What single parents told Project Gender and Ngāti Kahungunu they need to change in the system 

  3. What Project Gender learned from the stakeholder hui about the capacity and resources of system stakeholders for this mahi 

… We make the following set of recommendations.

Here we have grouped our recommended solutions into three areas; systemic, policy and immediate actions. This list is intended to be an easy-to-use guide for government, businesses and community groups to identify and action the recommendations that pertain to them.

Who did we hear from in the Mako Mama - Mangopare Online Survey?

Mako Mama - Mangopare in the media

Tania appeared on Breakfast TV in August 2022, in order to promote the survey. This was a huge asset in promoting the mahi and encouraging single parents to complete the survey.

Many people have supported Mako Mama - Mangopare. As well as the generous support of Peter McKenzie Project, we would like to specifically acknowledge the following people and organisations who made this project possible:

  • The Project Advisory Group. Particularly as we framed up the engagement process and scope of this mahi, our Project Advisory Group were invaluable in testing, supporting and advising this work. Special thanks to Tui Te Hau, Deborah Mackenzie, Penny Henderson, Josie Glasson, Jean Hera and Leanne Inder for their time and energy.

  • Thank you to everyone who attended and participated in the Stakeholder Hui and the subsequent 1:1 hui: Members of Parliament, policy-makers, representatives from the private sector, community advocates and more. We have been honoured by the generosity of time and energy to look at how we can best create change.

  • From a Project Gender perspective, we would like to thank Ngāti Kahungunu for joining us in partnership. Your manaakitanga and genuine enthusiasm for Mako Mama - Mangopare has been an absolute gift to this mahi and we cannot wait to work with you on the next steps. Ngā mihi maioha.

  • Finally - to the more than 3,500 single parents who supported this project by sharing their insights, frustrations and suggestions for change. We hear you. We know that you know - more than anyone - what needs to change. We thank you for trusting us with your stories and we are committed to taking your voices forward. He aha te mea nui o te ao? He tangata he tangata he tangata! (What is the most important thing in the world? It is people, it is people, it is people!). Ngā mihi nui; kia ora rawa atu. We hope that we’ve done you proud.

This is the beginning for Mako Mama - Mangopare: we invite you to join us to create meaningful change for single parents, and their whānau, in Aotearoa.

Ngā mihi nui,

Project Gender & Ngāti Kahungunu

Thank you!